by Neil Aitken
Pulling through Montana in the snow we cling to the tail lights of the last car blurring back into the darkness. "Like the inside of a coffin," my father says as if knowing the exact shade the dead see lying stiff, frozen eyes peering up through closed lids he shifts in his seat, watches the road disappear thinks again of dying and the burials we've seen, his father's simple reduction to ashes. How small the urn, how light, for a man that stood 6'3", carried a boy on his shoulders, lived on trains as a youth, picked apples as a man. This past summer, watching him thin to disappearing, blurring out lines between lives, my father trying to return pieces, fragments, time, the body burning, the dark smells of crematoriums, funeral homes, and pale-faced lawyers. Something merges, ends, and begins. My father placing the ashes back into the air, offering to the skies, to the seas, unaware of how Buddhist he is at this moment, how the faint sound of bagpipes echoes how the ashes fall catching light reflecting something back into the silence, the dark birth of the sun coming into view.
